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The key to making life really unique and worthwhile is to share. Sharing has a certain unique magic of its own. Here’s what I learned in sharing ideas.

If you share an idea with ten different people, they get to hear it once, and you get to hear it ten times. So here’s part of self-interest for yourself, getting you even better prepared for the future. Share ideas. Share with your family, share with the people around you, share with other employees, share with your colleagues.

Because, by sharing, two things happen. Here’s what we call it. I don’t know how to explain it, but I do know it happens. And I don’t know all about how it happens or why it happens, it just happens.

When one person shares with another, two things happen. The audience could be transformed, and so could the speaker. If you share with someone else, they could be transformed. You may have dropped in at the right time. This may be their moment.

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TLCBN 2nd Birthday BashWhether you’re launching a start-up or attempting to find fresh opportunities, networking events are an indispensable part of the game. Some lucky people dive right into these events and come out with five great leads and a new hiking mate. Except for others, these orchestrated events can be a total drag, full of embarrassing moments and dull small talk.

Whether you are a seasoned veteran or new to the networking scene, here are methods to make the most of these events.

Reminder: You are there to give, not get

Change your mind-set. You’re not there to get. Instead, you are there to contribute to the event, help others or simply discover what other pros are doing. This small change in thinking will boost your sense of purpose and self-worth and erase that overwhelming pressure. Before very long, you’ll find yourself having a good time, developing strong relations and enticing loads of referrals.

DON’T Be Desperate

Whether you are dating or networking, neediness is a major turn-off. As debated above, when your main purpose is getting something from the event, you send the message that you’re deprived of something ( a job, clients, clients ) and you are looking to the individual you are meeting to save you. So no matter how badly you want a job or new customer, you’ve got to set that aside when interacting with others.

Converse Sincerely

Yes, you should prepare and practice answers to predicted questions like “So what do you do?” But these answers should be straightforward, natural and in simple English. Your goal is for any person ( not just those in your industry circle ) to understand and connect to what you’re saying.

And if you find yourself stuck on the tough end of a stuffy, jargon-filled elevator pitch, attempt to shift the dynamic with a simple query like “So what does that mean?” You will get into a natural, and fascinating, conversation.

Ask and Discuss Open-ended Matters

This is a great skill for anyone that can’t stand all of the incessant chit-chat linked with meeting people the first time. The goal here is to always ask folk questions that can’t be answered with an easy yes or no. Pick questions that demand a real answer, like, “How has your industry changed during the past ten years?” “What are your customers asking for the most?” and “Why do you think that is?”

As a general rough guide, “why” questions generate the most fascinating answers and chats.

Limit your Drinking

You may think that 1 or 2 stiff drinks will help you relax and mingle. There isn’t much wrong with a drink or two, but know your limit. When talking with potential bosses, clients or referrals, you want to be as sharp, clear and on top of your game as practicable and alcohol doesn’t always help in these areas. Actually new studies show that people are more likely to go over their limit when drinking at a work function than at a bar or party. Remember, you would like to portray yourself as somebody others wish to work with, not necessarily drink with.

Connect With Everyone

Perhaps your objective is to get a new job as a community manager, but you’re “stuck” talking to an IT engineer. Don’t write off the chance. I cannot tell you what number of folks have found a client or job thru someone who knows someone that knows someone. What’s the lesson here? Appreciate each person you meet, do not be dismissive, and never ever scan the room while speaking to somebody. You never know where a talk may lead.

Practice and practice

Think of networking like any other pro skill. While others in the room may look like born networkers, they are likely just more experienced. It is something you have to learn through trial and error. And the only way to boost is to just get out there and do it.

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1st Step: Identify your target audience.

The success of your social media marketing is dependent on who you are targeting and how you are operating your business. If you are a local business with complete dependence on local buyers, then you have to target local people to like your social media pages. Or for example, if your business is geared towards young buyers, then you have to target the specific ages of people so that you can encourage them to buy your products.

Social media marketers fail because they try to cover every possible social media platform too quickly and without strategy. But, they pay no regard to whether they can manage the accounts or not for the long run. So, instead of creating social media pages on different websites, simply target where you would find the most number of followers that would be most interested in your product or service.

2nd Step: Build up conversations.

Social media marketing is highly demanding because it encourages both the users and you to be more interactive. So, when operating your social media accounts, try to be as interactive as possible. It gives leads a possible view about your product that can lead to increased sales.

3rd Step: Pay attention to details.

No matter what you are selling or what offers you are providing, what potential customers need is information. Yes, the more detailed you are regarding your products, the more customers you’re likely to get. Keep your social media platforms updated as frequently as possible. Make a declaration for every new product so that a kind of suspension can be created within the leads.

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5 Key Points To Consider in Social Media

by Ellen on August 22, 2012

Here are the 5 key points I have learned about social media:

  1. You can NO LONGER ignore ‘Social Media’ if you really want to grow your business online. Social media plays a vital role to grow your small business.
  2. You CANNOT treat Facebook, Twitter, Google PLUS & more, the same as each other. They each have different demographics and different posting options, which require different strategies.
  3. You NEED to track your efforts. Blindly posting is a waste of time when you have no clue how effective your time is being spent and is really, just stupid.
  4. You CANNOT just create an account on the topic of your niche and expect to make it succeed. An example of this would be if you are in the “get your ex back niche”. If you create a Facebook page on “get your ex back”, I can guarantee you very few will proudly join to become a “fan” (would you?).
  5. You CANNOT just post link after link after link after link… You get the point… I hope.

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3 Ways to Boost Your Social Media Career

by Ellen on August 10, 2012

 “Social Media is about sociology and psychology more than technology.” – Brain Solis Principal of FutureWorks

 “Social networks aren’t about Web sites. They’re about experiences.” – Mike DiLorenzo, NHL social media marketing director

Social media has been efficient for small businesses in the past years. Because of the advancing of technology, experts say that it will continue for years.  More people have used social media for their business hence there’s a rapid arise of competition. As an entrepreneur, you must be equipped with ideas to boost your social media career.

1.      Go Deeper Into Content

If you think you’ve done enough, double your effort now.  The digital age is a great democratizing opportunity: anyone can broadcast his or her creations to the world. But this has also led to great chaos as professionals struggle to cut through the amateur clamor.  In order to build a relationship of trust, you must use the emotive link of storytelling. Learn to tell a powerful story. It must have an emphasized beginning, middle and end- and translate it into a digital asset through multimedia skills in video, photography; animation and audio- apply it to your small businesses.  You need to capture the imagination of individuals who need to convince that your ideas are worthwhile and that you and your company can be trusted.

2.      Know that Social Networks Transcend Facebook and Twitter

Rather than getting caught up in the arms race of the latest attention-grabbing technique on Facebook, you need to instead develop a deeper understanding of how these social networks are formed, and how they work. Technology is just the enabler. Fundamentally, social media is all about human interaction. Ultimately, successful engagement is less about the “what” people are doing on social networks, and more about why they’re there, and how they’re interacting with each other.

 

3.      Work on with Data and Learn How to Ask the Right Questions

In that case, you’ll have to get comfortable with numbers and critical analysis. The smart use of data is massively important. Sure, there are tons of plug-and-play analytics tools out there, but you’ve got to get comfortable with research yourself. Learn to ask the right questions and draw informed conclusions from the data at hand. In short, you won’t get the right answer if you don’t know how to ask the right question.

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